A friend who's experiencing marital problems recently proclaimed, "Next time, I'm going to choose my mother-in-law, and then fall in love with her son!" And it seems to me, it might also be good advice to choose your wedding dress and then decide who you'll marry! I admit it's a sort of "build it and he will come" philosophy, maybe a bit too New Age-y for some. But when you think of your perfect wedding, doesn't it include both the perfect man AND the perfect dress? And since the perfect dress seems easier to find, why not start there? Vintage versions are not only beautiful but, compared to the price of a new designer wedding gown, they'll put a smaller dent in your pocketbook and leave extra for a fabulous honeymoon in Bali. Just click SEE SLIDESHOW to view my selection.